You’ve done the work — but love still feels confusing or out of reach
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It’s time to break old patterns and build a secure, lasting relationship
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Discover a psychology-informed dating strategy that helps you understand why you get stuck — and what actually changes it.Â
Without labelling yourself, over-analysing every message, or turning dating into another job.
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You're in the Right Place If...
- You’re a thoughtful professional woman - but dating feels stuck on repeatÂ
- You’ve done plenty of self-work but still attract unavailable or mismatched partners
- You’re tired of swiping, analysing, or "trying to stay positive" while nothing changes
- You’re losing faith that real connection still happens offline
- You crave clarity, confidence, and a plan that actually fits you
This isn’t about rules, scripts, or being told who to date.
It’s about building internal clarity so you can make grounded choices without the second-guessing.
There's a calmer, smarter way to date - one that brings better matches and better dates, without making dating your full-time job!
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Join the Priority List if you're ready to:
- Stop wasting time on apps that don't lead to real-life connection
- Know your non-negotiables - and spot red flags early
- Turn first dates into real conversations (no more surface-level small talk)
- Show up as your most confident, grounded self from the start
- Stay emotionally steady and self-trusting — even when dating doesn’t go to plan
Introducing 'Find Your Person'
A 6 week programme that helps you uncover your unique strengths and values, gently update unhelpful dating patterns, and create a dating plan that actually works for you.
You’ll learn how to recognise real emotional availability, practice dating with more confidence and ease, and build the resilience to stay open — without overthinking every step. You’ll come to see your dating patterns not as flaws, but as intelligent strategies that once kept you safe and can now be updated
It’s not about changing who you are — it’s about dating from your healthiest, most grounded self.
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What You'll Get
6 Weeks of Live Group Coaching -
Clear structure, supportive pace, no pressure to overshare
Supportive WhatsApp community -
Optional, warm, and grounded — connection without overwhelm
Step-by-Step Psychological Roadmap -
Short audios, practical tools, realistic experiments that fit real life
What Participants Say
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Many women say the biggest shift wasn’t “doing dating better” — it was feeling calmer, clearer, and less alone.
Emma
“I’m approaching dating in a completely new way…That shift alone has been a game-changer.”
LJ
“I'm trusting myself so much more...”
Em
“I finally feel able to have honest, difficult conversations…”
Hi - I'm Dr Kate
Clinical Psychologist, Dating Coach, and former “why-is-this-so-hard?!” dater.
Despite being someone who “should know this stuff” — a Clinical Psychologist with years of experience — I still found dating confusing for a long time. I understood the theory, but applying it in real-life moments was a different challenge.
I’d get drawn into intensity, ignore my own needs to keep the connection smooth, and only later realise the early signs of misalignment. Slowing down, understanding my own patterns clearly, and dating in a more grounded, secure way changed everything.
Find Your Person is built from that intersection:
solid psychological principles, lived experience, and practical steps that work in real life.
Warm, evidence-informed guidance — without rules or scripts — to help you date differently from the inside out.Â
